The Work of Showing Up

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Some stories about animal welfare begin in an exam room. Others begin at an adoption event, or in the bright fluorescent rhythm of a shelter hallway. Alexis’s story begins much earlier than that, and much farther out in the community.

It began when she was eight years old.

“My journey began with community cats,” she says. “My grandmother was living in a senior facility in Hollister, and during visits we quickly noticed the large number of cats living on the property — over 60 in need of care.”

At first, she and her family simply fed them. But feeding led to questions, and questions led to action. Alexis and her mom began learning about Trap-Neuter-Return, or TNR, and the importance of spaying and neutering community cats. They trapped cats humanely, helped socialize kittens, found medical care when it was needed, and worked to place animals into adoptive homes. It was hands-on, emotional, deeply practical work — and it shaped the way Alexis would come to understand both animals and the people who care for them.

“Those early experiences laid the foundation for my lifelong commitment to animal welfare,” she says.

One of her clearest memories from that time has nothing to do with a clinic or a colony. It was her ninth birthday, when her mom and aunt surprised her with her first cat, a chocolate point Siamese named Jack.

“I was fortunate to have him by my side for 18 years,” she says, “a constant reminder of where this work began and why it continues to matter so much to me.”

A Different Kind of Veterinary Work

That origin story matters because it helps explain the kind of person Alexis is in the field today. Her work on Humane Society Silicon Valley’s Community Medicine team is rooted not only in veterinary skill, but in something more elemental: empathy without judgment, patience without pretense, and the conviction that loving an animal and being able to access care for that animal are not always the same thing.

“At HSSV, we know that wanting to do the right thing and being able to do it aren’t always the same,” Alexis says. “Choosing between spay/neuter and basic necessities like groceries is incredibly difficult. I never want families to feel judged for that.”

That perspective was shaped by her first job in veterinary medicine, where she worked at a general practice that, in her words, “was not driven by profit or bonuses, but by a genuine commitment to the animals and the people who loved them.”

She still carries those lessons with her.

“It showed us that even during challenging times, these pets are someone’s family, and it’s our responsibility to do everything we can to provide care and support,” Alexis says. “Sometimes clients are facing difficult circumstances and simply need compassion and a little extra help.”

That ethos is the foundation of community medicine. It is not simply about offering low-cost or mobile veterinary services, though those matter tremendously. It is about removing barriers — transportation, cost, fear, distrust, inconsistent access, overwhelming life circumstances — so that pets and their people can stay together. It is about recognizing that care does not happen in a vacuum.

And sometimes, it starts with stopping the car and asking a simple question.

A Chance Encounter on a Street Corner

One evening, Alexis was out feeding a colony of feral cats she cares for when she met Ronnie and his dog, Star.

Ronnie was standing on a street corner with Star, his large, affectionate dog, when Alexis stopped to talk with him and ask if there was anything Star might need. Ronnie explained that Star needed food and vaccinations so the two of them could move into housing they had just been approved for.

“He told me that she needed food and vaccinations so they could move into housing they had just been approved for,” Alexis recalls.

Alexis helped get Star to one of HSSV’s high-volume vaccine clinics. She provided food, too. Once Star was vaccinated, Ronnie shared that Star still needed to be spayed, and he wanted to make sure it happened before she had a litter. Alexis scheduled the soonest spay appointment she could get.

But like so many stories in community medicine, it did not unfold in a straight line.

On the day of surgery, Ronnie was unable to bring Star in. Alexis suspects he may have been sick. After that, the two lost touch for six or seven months.

No Judgment, Just the Next Step

When Alexis eventually saw Ronnie and Star again, Star had already had puppies.

That could be told as a story about a missed opportunity. In the hands of a less thoughtful narrator, it might become a story about what did not happen in time. But that is not how Alexis sees the people she serves, and it is not how she approaches the work.

Instead, she saw what still needed to be done.

When Alexis found Ronnie and Star again, the puppies were around nine or ten weeks old. She offered to take them all in.

What followed was weeks of intensive care: feeding, cleaning, monitoring, socializing, coordinating, worrying, and waiting. Anyone who has cared for a litter of puppies knows how consuming that work can be. Alexis did it anyway.

“It was a lot of work,” she says with characteristic understatement. “Puppies require constant attention and having them for several weeks was definitely a full commitment.”

In total, it took about two months to place all four puppies in homes.

“I’m proud to say that each puppy was adopted into a great home,” she says, “and all of them were spayed or neutered before going to their new families. It was a long process, but ultimately very rewarding.”

By then, Ronnie had moved into housing.

Running Into Them Again

Then, in the kind of full-circle moment that feels almost scripted, Alexis ran into Ronnie and Star again completely by chance — this time while she was working at a wellness clinic at his housing site.

“I was so excited to see Ronnie again,” she says. “It had been a little while since our last visit, and I was genuinely happy to reconnect and help ensure Star received the care she needed.”

They signed Star up for another spay appointment. Ronnie was fully on board, just as he had been before. But there was still a practical problem: transportation.

Star is no small dog. At around 80 pounds, she is not exactly easy to bring on a bus. Ronnie did not have a way to get her to the appointment.

So Alexis did what community medicine often requires people to do: she solved the problem that was actually in front of her.

She offered to pick Star up the night before surgery, keep her overnight, and bring her to work the next morning.

The procedure went smoothly. Star was finally spayed. Ronnie was relieved and grateful. Alexis was, too.

“He’s incredibly grateful that Star was able to be spayed,” Alexis says, “and I’m grateful that he trusted me and was willing to do what was best for her.”

How Trust Gets Built

Trust is the word that lingers in this story, because it is easy to miss how significant that trust really was. Ronnie and Alexis did not meet through an intake form or a formal case management system. They met on a sidewalk. Over time, that brief encounter grew into the kind of relationship where Ronnie felt comfortable trusting Alexis to keep Star overnight and get her safely to surgery.

Alexis is modest about that.

“Honestly, I’m not entirely sure how the trust developed,” she says, “but I’m truly grateful that Ronnie trusted me with Star.”

Still, in describing what happened next, she reveals exactly how that trust was built.

“Before he moved to his current housing site, I would drive by multiple times a week to check on him and Star,” she says, “and I never showed up empty-handed. It was important to me that they knew they could rely on my support whenever they needed it.”

That is how trust develops. Not all at once. Not through a grand gesture. Through consistency. Through showing up. Through proving, over and over, that help is not conditional and compassion is not a performance.

The Dog at the Center of It All

And then there is Star herself, whose personality seems to bring a little joy and humor into every chapter of the story.

“Star is an incredibly active and playful girl who clearly doesn’t realize her size,” Alexis says. “She’s fully convinced she’s a lap dog.”

Their first meeting made that clear immediately.

“The first time I met her, I had my car window rolled down and she immediately hopped right up to say hello and give plenty of kisses,” Alexis says. “It was such a sweet — and very on-brand — introduction.”

When Star stayed at Alexis’s house before surgery, she made herself right at home.

“She of course claimed a spot in my bed,” Alexis says, “and quickly made it clear she’s a total bed hog.”

It is a funny detail, but also a revealing one. This is not a story about abstraction or policy language. It is a story about real people and real animals, with personalities, histories, challenges, humor, and love. That is what community medicine looks like when it is done well. It is relational. It is personal. It is often messy. And it is built on the understanding that care has to account for the full context of someone’s life.

The Work People Don’t Always See

Alexis understands that deeply, in part because the work has changed her.

“There are days when I feel defeated,” she says, “particularly after clinics where not everyone is receptive to conversations about spaying and neutering. Those discussions can be some of the most challenging, and it is not always easy to find common ground.”

Over time, she has learned to step back and look at the bigger picture.

“Even on days that don’t feel like a complete success, meaningful work is still being done,” she says. “In this field, it’s easy to focus on what didn’t go right rather than what did. Learning to be gentler with myself and acknowledge the positive impact we are making has been an important part of my growth — both professionally and personally.”

She is equally clear-eyed about the parts of this work people do not always see.

“The work can be incredibly exhausting at times,” she says. “From the outside, it may appear repetitive — performing spay and neuter surgeries, staffing clinics, working in CPC, and caring for in-house animals. However, no two days are ever truly the same. Each day brings new challenges, new conversations, and new situations that require energy, adaptability, and compassion.”

Even so, she and her teammates keep showing up.

“There are days when we are not met with the same kindness or patience that we strive to show others,” she says, “but we continue to show up regardless. That commitment — even on the hardest days — is something I am deeply proud of.”

What Community Medicine Really Means

In many ways, Ronnie and Star’s story captures that commitment in miniature. A missed appointment did not become the end of the story. A litter of puppies did not become a reason for blame. Housing barriers, transportation barriers, gaps in communication, and the unpredictability of life did not cancel out care. Alexis kept showing up. Ronnie kept trying. Star kept being Star.

Today, Alexis still keeps in touch with them.

And perhaps that is the clearest definition of community medicine there is: not a single intervention, but an ongoing relationship. Not charity from a distance, but care built on trust, dignity, and follow-through. Not judgment about what should have happened, but support for what can happen next.

“That’s what community medicine is,” Alexis says. “Building personal, honest relationships with people and having real conversations about why this matters.”

In a field that can sometimes feel dominated by numbers — surgeries completed, vaccines administered, appointments filled, animals placed — stories like this one are a reminder that the real work often happens in the spaces between those metrics. In the decision to stop the car. In the willingness to try again. In the extra trip, the overnight stay, the follow-up conversation, the bag of food brought by hand.

For Alexis, this work is not just about animal welfare in the broadest sense. It is about making sure care is actually reachable. It is about recognizing devotion in people who are too often overlooked. It is about understanding that love for a pet can be profound even when circumstances are unstable. And it is about doing the practical, compassionate work required to close the gap between intention and access.

Ronnie knew what Star needed. Alexis helped make it possible.

That is not just a good outcome. It is a model for what humane, community-centered care can be.

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